Let's Talk Self-Harm
Most people immediately think of cutting when they hear the word "self-harm." On the other hand, self-harm is technically defined as any coping strategy that provides temporary relief from difficult emotions. It is often generally done with the purpose of self-punishment, communication of pain, or both. Self-harm is something I like to think of as a pattern that has grown in response to adversity in ones life. We all depend on coping mechanism to help us deal with anxiety, stress, and trauma. Some of us are fortunate enough to access a safe coping method, such as a physical, artistic, relaxing, or community-based activity. In contrast, others come upon something that offers a similar sense of relaxation but has a less positive effect on their wellbeing. Overeating, undereating, excessive consumption of alcohol or other substances, remaining in unhealthy relationships or friendships, or engaging in physical confrontations are examples of self-harm. These aren't necessarily...